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What is the biggest change our family or friends have seen in us since we experienced the weekend? HDIFAT?
The couple that has most helped me to experience God's love is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
I really wish I had started _____ earlier in life. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the direction our life together is taking?
HDIF when you decide to do things my way?
Is the focal point of our lives God and the Church? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am not able to express my physical needs to you in our lovemaking?
Do I take myself for more than I am, or for less than I am worth? HDIFAT?
To what extent do I feel responsible for our children's learning? HDIFAT?
Would I treat God as I treated you today? HDIFAT?
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Am I holding onto any resentment, bitterness or anger toward my child? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our Christmas tree traditions?
HDIF when you want some time alone?
HDIF when I must explain my actions?
What aspect of dialogue is hardest for me? HDIFAT?
What effect did dialogue have on us during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
In what areas or ways do I think I am taken for granted? HDIFAT?
Do I have the desire to fulfill the purpose for which I was created? HDIFAT?
Do my actions help or hinder Martin Luther King's dream of a society where all are equal? HDIFAT?
HDIF about doing the things that you enjoy?
What can I do to help me understand God better? HDIFAT?
What was our closest moment as a family this year? HDIFAT?
Am I patient enough with you? HDIFAT?
How can we reach out to children outside our family? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am around positive people?
Am I as close to my people as I was just after experiencing the weekend? HDIFAT?
What is my biggest block that keeps me from being sexually responsive to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about living our marriage according to God's plan?
HDIF about how we use our money?
HDIF when winter is approaching?
HDIF about taking food to a shut-in?
How do I make decisions? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our daughter being a priest / pastor / nun?
Do I seek long-term or short-term happiness? HDIFAT?
If our house were burning down, and I could only save three things, what would they be and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know you have had a bad day?
How do we make our sacrament a visible sign of God's love? HDIFAT?
The phone rings during dinner. HDIFAT?
In the area of death, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about dying today?
HDIF when I hold the door for you?
Describe a time when I felt enraged. HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I do not know what to do? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am spending time alone?
What are ten qualities I want most in a partner? How do I measure up? HDIFAT?
What do I think heaven is like? HDIFAT?
Here is my description of the ideal wife: _____. HDIFAT?
Why did we join a support group? HDIFAT?
What is the most impulsive thing I ever did? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my decisions are questioned?
What expectations do I have of our children? HDIFAT?
Am I free to be playful when I want to be? HDIFAT?
Do I respect the differences of others for the strengths that they are? HDIFAT?
Do I take the beauty of God's creation for granted? HDIFAT?
Do I ever keep quiet because I judge you will not listen anyway? HDIFAT?
What am I willing to do to make our dialogue better this coming week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have a particularly hard job ahead of me?
How important is spoken communication to our relationship? HDIFAT?
What has our involvement in Encounter / Retrouvaille meant to me? HDIFAT?
How do I live out the passion for our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF on those occasions when I discipline our children?
Eucharist is a family reunion. HDIFAT?
If I were to receive a huge sum of money, how would I be changed by it? HDIFAT?
Do we still sit next to each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF when people say exactly what they mean?
In what areas do I find it most difficult to reach out to you? HDIFAT?
What stands in the way of my making a genuine commitment to you? HDIFAT?
Do I turn my troubles over to the Lord? HDIFAT?
In what areas or ways do I consider myself superior to my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your tenderness with the children?
HDIF about appearing on stage in a play or other performance?
HDIF about the way we resolve conflicts in our relationship?
Is our love for each other stronger today than yesterday? HDIFAT?
In thinking about our finances, what is my strongest emotion / feeling?
HDIF about being separated from you through death?
HDIF about going out alone in the evening?
HDIF if one of our children died?
How is our day when we are not sexually desirous? HDIFAT?
When did we last experience healing in our marriage? What made it possible? HDIFAT?
What was the most moving part of the last wedding we attended? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do something that disrupts my plans?
How do I see priests / pastors needing our support in their calling? HDIFAT?
How do we share our faith with each other? HDIFAT?
Am I patient enough with God? HDIFAT?
What are the sources of my pain or frustration? HDIFAT?
Have I ever gotten revenge on someone? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we take a drive together to see the beautiful fall foliage?
HDIF when you are receptive to suggestions I offer?
Where do I look when I need strength? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, It is my fault?
What is one of the greatest moments of our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF about caroling on Christmas Eve?
How do we show our love for each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you asleep on the couch?
HDIF about being affectionate in front of the kids?
In what area of my life am I living as a married single? HDIFAT?
HDIF when TV sports controls meals and holidays in our home?
HDIF when I say ours but really mean mine?
What is my reaction to seeing couples we know and love working on their relationships? HDIFAT?
When recently do I remember loving you beyond inconvenience or hurt? HDIFAT?
I make many of my decisions by _____. HDIFAT?
What was my favorite nursery rhyme? HDIFAT?
I need to learn to _____. HDIFAT?
What can I do to make our relationship stronger? HDIFAT?
How have you helped me be a better person? HDIFAT?
HDIF when waiting in line at a crowded restaurant?
Do I have to fish for compliments? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am running errands?
HDIF when I try to convince you of something and you cannot accept it?
HDIF saying yes to lovemaking but only for the good of our relationship?
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Do I worry about being taken for granted? HDIFAT?
The most important thing in my life right now is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our diet or food choices at this time?
HDIF when you bring up past hurts?
Do I presume the best or worst about my people? HDIFAT?
Can we talk about money easily? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see your features in our child?
HDIF when I have to drive the car in dangerous weather?
If I could dedicate a song to my people today, what would it be and why? HDIFAT?
Do I let my low self-esteem get in the way of accepting God's love for me? HDIFAT?
What way have I shown my love to our daughter / son lately? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I stop with you for ice cream?
HDIF when you swear at me or engage in name-calling?
HDIF when I am too tired to sleep?
How has the atmosphere in our home changed because of our growth? HDIFAT?
Am I comfortable with change in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way our yard looks?
What makes me feel degraded? HDIFAT?
As a child, how were my parents most critical of me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you give me a sincere compliment?
HDIF when I ask you to forgive me? HDIFAT?
Your most endearing quality today is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about following a schedule and making to-do lists?
What do I see as your best quality? HDIFAT?
HDIF about carrying an organ donor card?
How have in-laws contributed a positive change in our family? HDIFAT?
What do I do in a group of strangers to be accepted and HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to work in a group?
Have I cut the apron strings? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am about to reveal something to you?
Am I inhibited about sex? HDIFAT?
How do I see our strengths as a couple? HDIFAT?
Am I more comfortable as a follower or as a leader? HDIFAT?
Do I let you reveal yourself? HDIFAT?
Do I experience God's love in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing Jesus died for us?
HDIF when I try to convince you of something and you cannot accept it?
Are our problems too complicated or unusual for most people to understand? HDIFAT?
God made you a part of my life. HDIFAT?
HDIF being around a room full of children?
HDIF about making a major purchase that will put us in debt?
What one thing do you do that helps bring me closest to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are striving to be open and honest with each other?
Do I follow the Lord in faith? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know that you are proud of me?
Do I allow God to work in me? HDIFAT?
Do I usually initiate friendships or wait to be approached? HDIFAT?
Do I avoid telling my people the truth to avoid offending hem? HDIFAT?
Do I prefer glasses or contacts? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are awakened at night by a crying child?
I have made a promise and cannot keep it. HDIFAT?
Where am I most selfish? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I tell you how important you are to me?
When recently do I remember your loving me beyond inconvenience or hurt? HDIFAT?
Are we a supercouple? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I judge you did not listen to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about learning to play a new sport?
HDIF about the changes in my physical appearance (weight, age)?
What have I done to help our little church? HDIFAT?
When was a time when our love as a couple touched someone else's life? HDIFAT?
How do we lovingly pass on our family traditions? HDIFAT?
Why do I go to church? HDIFAT?
HDIF at a large party?
Is our relationship alive and well in the eyes of other people? HDIFAT?
Has our love grown since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
How does my or your job affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
Sometimes my burdens seem just too great to carry. HDIFAT?
How does TV affect our lives? HDIFAT?
What emotions / feelings have I kept hidden from you lately? HDIFAT?
I like to look at you when _____. HDIFAT?
When was the last time I complimented my people? HDIFAT?
What about my relationship with God can be improved? HDIFAT?
How do I see you to be superior to me? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I most need your help? HDIFAT?
How has dialogue helped me meet my need for belonging? HDIFAT?
I am summoned to jury duty. HDIFAT?
HDIF sharing our faith as a couple?
Do I wear seat belts all the time? HDIFAT?
What joys or pleasures have our children given us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about listening to you when I am really busy?
What do I find relaxing? HDIFAT?
Do my expectations of our children limit my love for them? HDIFAT?
Do I tend to see things in black and white, or do I see shades of gray? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to others when I am away from my people? HDIFAT?
It is possible to give without loving, but it is impossible to love without giving. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you compliment me in a way that affirms my femininity / masculinity?
What am I most disillusioned with in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to make major changes in my plans at the last minute?
When do I want to be sexually involved with you? HDIFAT?
How are we working for the coming of His kingdom? HDIFAT?
How can our kiss be more meaningful? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite thing for us to do as a couple? HDIFAT?
How would I rate our communication skills? HDIFAT?
Did I make the most of my time today, or did I waste my time? HDIFAT?
Can I recognize when our children are under stress? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I sense God's love through you?
How have our in-laws contributed positively to our family? HDIFAT?
Do we agree on how to show affection to each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you yell at our children?
HDIF about hugging other people?
HDIF about the priorities of job or career versus relationship priorities?
When was the last time I felt very close to Jesus? HDIFAT?
A New Year begins tomorrow. HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving my two best friends a key to the house?
How do I respond to disappointment? HDIFAT?
Do I exercise regularly? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having an egg hunt for the kids?
How well do I concentrate on your needs? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you insult or belittle one of my ideas?
HDIF when someone mentions my job title?
HDIF about giving presents to those I love?
Do I know how to be myself, or do I always wear a mask (personality style)? HDIFAT?
HDIF when one of my people tells me We'll see when they really mean No?
What strengths do we have to offer others as a couple? HDIFAT?
If I could change one thing about myself, I would change _____. HDIFAT?
What is my plan to help you enjoy life on a daily basis? HDIFAT?
What do I want God to help us with? HDIFAT?
Do I see my labors as prayer? HDIFAT?
Do I have the desire to fulfill the purpose for which I was created? HDIFAT?
HDIF while we are separated by a business trip?
HDIF when our routines separate us?
HDIF when we are loving in front of our children?
HDIF about our bed?
Why do not I trust you with helping me with sex? HDIFAT?
What actions, things or behaviors are life-giving to me? HDIFAT?
What special gift have I prepared to give Him for His birthday? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I laughed until I cried? HDIFAT?
HDIF about being in mass or church with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the romance, or the lack of it, in our relationship?
In what ways am I still a mystery to myself? HDIFAT?
When other people want to help me, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to respect authority and follow the rules?
Do I see responsibilities as a burden, a challenge, or just part of life? HDIFAT?
When do I feel most loved? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my reaction toward sex?
Do I have trouble really letting go and forgiving you? HDIFAT?
How would never having children affect my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about doing a task when I do not have time to do it right?
What is my wildest dream for us? HDIFAT?
HDIF on those occasions when I criticize how you discipline our children?
What words would I take back if I could? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am not thanked for going out of my way for someone?
How do I behave when I am angry? HDIFAT?
How well do I think I listen to you? What can I do to listen better? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do not dialogue regularly?
HDIF being sprinkled with holy water?
Can I call you a friend as well as a lover? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to working under pressure? HDIFAT?
I would like to go back to _____ one more time, with you. HDIFAT?
Sometimes I want to escape and be by myself. HDIFAT?
How have we grown as a couple over the last year? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I give you a lift to work?
Here is my description of the ideal mother: _____. HDIFAT?
What do I need to thank you for that I have not? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you get sick during the holidays?
What do I remember most about our wedding day? HDIFAT?
Am I content just to wait when I have done all I can? HDIFAT?
What person in my family has lived the longest? HDIFAT?
What has kept me from being completely honest before now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my decisions are questioned?
When I want to retreat from our relationship, what do I do? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of us from last year? HDIFAT?
Is our involvement with Encounter / Retrouvaille done as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see thanks shining in your eyes?
How do I think the world will end? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going to mass or church as a family?
HDIF when I forget other people's birthdays?
If I had this day to do over, what would I change? HDIFAT?
HDIF about living with a budget?
How has our dialogue made you more important in my life? HDIFAT?
Do I believe God loves me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about setting up regular date nights and blocking them off in the calendar?
How well do I accept others outside of my community? HDIFAT?
My most unusual ability or talent is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I say no to your request for lovemaking?
What is my dream for a perfect romantic evening? HDIFAT?
If I were a Christmas present, how would I be wrapped under the tree? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the cross I must carry?
What emotions / feelings do I have the most trouble expressing? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to overtures of friendship from someone I have already decided to reject? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I cannot relax at home?
Is my burden easier when I share it with Christ? HDIFAT?
Does our inability to have children make a difference in our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
Why do (did) I choose to be baptized? HDIFAT?
HDIF at those times when you are controlling and manipulative?
Do I consider Jesus a friend? HDIFAT?
What are my expectations about our sexual roles? HDIFAT?
What is the biggest confidence you give to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about donating money to the poor?
What have I done today to help others? HDIFAT?
How are we different from other couples? HDIFAT?
Do I get along with your parents? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself to be vengeful? HDIFAT?
HDIF about a hobby that keeps us separated much of the time?
HDIF about walking together?
HDIF when I initiate our lovemaking?
HDIF when I get up but let you sleep?
HDIF when a child disobeys?
When we disagree, how can we do it more lovingly? HDIFAT?
What can my people do to help me understand them better? HDIFAT?
HDIF about fact that other people are reaching out to us?
What mistakes have I made because I did not learn my lesson the first time? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I recycle old newspapers, bottles or cans?
Is our sexual relationship life-giving? HDIFAT?
HDIF about helping teach someone?
HDIF when I do not like the dialog question you have selected?
When have I felt most wanted? HDIFAT?
I find it difficult to listen to my people when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way our marriage reflected God's love in our world today?
What is a good husband / good wife and do I measure up? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are receptive to suggestions I offer?
What do I miss most when we are on vacation? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I conceal my emotions / feelings?
HDIF about giving you space when you need it?
In what ways are you my best friend? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think you are hurting me intentionally?
Do I see myself the same way God sees me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our couple prayer?
What would be the ideal place and time for us to make love? HDIFAT?
How well do I think you listen to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF after re-reading the notebook I used as we experienced the weekend?
HDIF when we work on the family budget together?
What struggle did we face that helped prepare us for this day? HDIFAT?
In what areas or ways do I consider myself superior to you? HDIFAT?
What do I want most for our family this Christmas? HDIFAT?
Here is my description of the ideal wife: _____. HDIFAT?
How do I try to control you? HDIFAT?
Did experiencing the weekend lead to a new beginning for us? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if I gave a compliment to three people each day? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who name-drop?
When am I most likely to ignore you? HDIFAT?
What guideline for fighting do I find most difficult to practice? HDIFAT?
Am I contributing something to the world? HDIFAT?
What are my longings for me and my people? HDIFAT?
The areas where I have seen the most growth in you are _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF watching our parents grow older?
Do I have a favorite New Years Day tradition? HDIFAT?
What is prayer to me? HDIFAT?
What would it be like for you if I died first? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself bigoted in any way? HDIFAT?
How does my mask (personality style) make me a married single? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone tells me to take it easy and relax for a while?
How would I feel working under someone who is always kind but not so fair? HDIFAT?
What am I willing to sacrifice to make my relationship with God better? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who show no flexibility?
HDIF sharing our possessions with other people?
HDIF when I try to understand how much you hurt?
HDIF about you liking me as a person?
HDIF when we are inspired by another couples' relationship?
Do I ever let the day end without complimenting you on something? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I say I am sorry?
Who should I thank that I have not thanked? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you respond to my requests on your own time?
How do we support other people in dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we get a call that our child is sick?
What have I enjoyed most in the challenge to dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF thinking this could be our last dialogue letter?
When do I get impatient with you? HDIFAT?
How can we plan for a memorable Easter? HDIFAT?
Am I driven, or do I prefer to go at my own pace? HDIFAT?
Do I see my people through my heart or through my head? HDIFAT?
What qualities do I admire most in others? HDIFAT?
Do I treat others as if they were what they ought to be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I look at my naked body?
HDIF about being intimate with you in a sexual way?
HDIF about being a newlywed? Or HDIF remembering our first few years of marriage?
How specifically can we as a couple / priest be salt and light? HDIFAT?
HDIF about watching a love story on TV or at the movies?
What was the most significant part of our Encounter / Retrouvaille weekend? HDIFAT?
Am I a different person over the phone? HDIFAT?
Can I see Christ in all people? HDIFAT?
What are the maybes in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going to bed earlier or waking earlier so we have time for us?
What helps me learn the most about you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your father?
HDIF about offering sacrifices?
Do I have unmet needs that lead me to be a married single? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the fun, or lack of fun, in our relationship?
When do I repress my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
What am I willing to do for the sake of our relationship, to make it better? HDIFAT?
Do I donate blood on a regular basis? HDIFAT?
Was there a time, in the past week, when I felt joy in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How have I let myself down? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, That was really great?
Sometimes I do not take the time to say I love you. HDIFAT?
Do I think a household budget would improve our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear from other people that you have complained about me?
What was my parents' relationship with God like? HDIFAT?
How do I gauge the blessings God has granted to us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you give me a mushy card?
In the area of death, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking responsibility for my emotions / feelings?
Which pressure in me is most affecting my dream for us today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when an old friend of yours wants to spend time with you?
What have I held back because I was sure I knew what your reaction would be? HDIFAT?
HDIF about learning new things?
Why did I marry you? HDIFAT?
HDIF walking around in public with ashes on my forehead?
HDIF when I am accepted and cared for?
Do I accept my mistakes and learn from them? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my self-image?
Do I fear intimacy? HDIF?
How would I feel if our TV were to break? HDIFAT?
As a child, was I closer to my mother or father? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the risk of pregnancy?
Do I sense God's presence in our relationship when we make love? HDIFAT?
How can we use prayer to draw us closer together? HDIFAT?
How are we supporting couples after the follow-up period ends? HDIFAT?
When I finish a task, HDIF about going immediately to the next task?
Do I thank my children when they do something for me? HDIFAT?
HDIF recalling my confirmation?
When you put your arms around me in public, I feel _____.
After a fight: What was the worst fight we ever had? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not meet your expectations?
HDIF about our financial responsibility?
HDIF about life's unpredictability?
HDIF when you believe me instead of the rumors?
Jesus is alive. HDIFAT?
How do you respond to my failures? HDIFAT?
What compliment do I least like to receive about us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know our lovemaking is about to begin?
What do I do to get relief from emotional pain when I am tired, lonely, angry or hurting? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I initiate sex?
HDIF about our bedroom?
What was the most tender moment we shared together this week? HDIFAT?
Can I sing a song all the way through? HDIFAT?
Where do I generally have an attitude of superiority? HDIFAT?
What is my mask (personality style) when we have an argument? HDIFAT?
How would the people I work with describe me? HDIFAT?
Do I pray for circumstances to change, or for the grace to handle circumstances? HDIFAT?
What do I think about the choices I have made in my friends? HDIFAT?
If I could erase any moment in our relationship, which would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are separated?
How did the absence of dialogue affect our communication and closeness? HDIFAT?
What would I like you to do to make it easier for me to trust you? HDIFAT?
What was our greatest lovemaking experience? HDIFAT?
How do I see myself to be superior to you? HDIFAT?
Would I rather read the paper or have conversation? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you work late?
HDIF about living our sacrament and what does this entail?
How can I be an inspiration to our family during Lent? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am unkind to you?
Listening is most difficult for me when _____. HDIFAT?
We hear and see values we do not agree with. HDIFAT?
Does our ability to have children make a difference in our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I write you a love note?
HDIF when I have to mind my words to keep you from getting upset?
What did not I do today that I wish I had? HDIFAT?
What have I done to make you happy this week? HDIFAT?
Do I have many close friends outside of my family? HDIFAT?
How long have we known each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you hug me after a rough day?
Do we take time to thank God for our blessings? HDIFAT?
Do I make the most of each day, or do I get caught up in regrets for yesterday or hopes of tomorrow? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making and keeping New Year's resolutions?
HDIF about letting my people know how much they mean to me?
I feel most uncomfortable with you when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you agree to do it my way?
HDIF about missing work?
HDIF about my education in music and art?
Do I have a genuine interest in your work and hobbies? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I / we went the extra mile to help someone. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our family traditions or the lack of them?
Do my personal goals conflict with our goals? HDIFAT?
After a fight: HDIF making up with you?
HDIF about making better preparations for my eventual death?
When I am more romantic than you, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am out of energy?
In social situations, do I worry about saying something stupid or uninformed? HDIFAT?
How can I delight in your goodness without trying to possess you? HDIFAT?
Has our house ever caught fire? HDIFAT?
What is the greatest joy or pleasure for me in dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our friends who abuse drugs or alcohol?
HDIF about discussing our sexual relationship?
HDIF about sacrificing financially to attend an event for married couples?
HDIF about going on a weekly date?
Do I believe white lies are all right? HDIFAT?
Where do I feel most alone in our relationship? How have I communicated this with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you we'll see but I think you mean no?
Have we been an example of a happily married couple this week? HDIFAT?
Do I complain about the problems in an otherwise good situation? HDIFAT?
Do I keep my pain, hurt, or disillusionment to myself? Why? HDIFAT?
Are our children taking care of their bodies? HDIFAT?
What do I judge to be my greatest weakness? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt very irritated. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we play together?
Very few burdens are heavy when everyone lifts. HDIFAT?
How do I view the differences between affection and sex? HDIFAT?
Does how I spend my time reflect the priorities and values I think I believe? HDIFAT?
Am I growing spiritually? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are frustrated or angry with someone or something else, but you take it out on me?
HDIF about being with family during the holidays?
HDIF when I realize God's answer is no? HDIFAT?
HDIF falling to sleep beside you? Waking up beside you?
HDIF when I remember you in my prayers?
HDIF when I realize and accept Jesus' closeness in our daily lives?
When working on a big project, am I more likely: to start at the beginning and take it step by step - start with the end and work my way back - or dive in somewhere in the middle? HDIFAT?
Am I open to the emotions / feelings you experience when under stress? HDIFAT?
What mask (personality style) am I wearing when I am avoiding you? HDIFAT?
Of those whom I have loved and lost, whom do I miss the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I picture us walking barefoot together on the beach?
HDIF when we stick to our budget?
How do I see God acting in our lives? HDIFAT?
What is my biggest barrier to forgiving you when I feel hurt? HDIFAT?
What brought me the most fulfillment today? HDIFAT?
When I want to feel important, what behaviors of mine can be a problem? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the importance of making decisions as a couple?
HDIF about writing about my emotions / feelings?
Do I meet difficulty by altering myself or by altering the situation? HDIFAT?
Am I being sexually responsive to your needs? HDIFAT?
Do I believe romance is a sign of weakness? HDIFAT?
Do I ever seek money instead of happiness? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we meet a couple who, like us, has experienced the weekend and follow-up?
HDIF when I look at pictures from my ordination / marriage?
HDIF when someone plays a practical joke on me?
How do I behave when I am treated unfairly? HDIFAT?
What is my most compulsive habit? HDIFAT?
Is it easy for me to describe my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
Where would I like to be next year at this time? HDIFAT?
Do I have a hard time making decisions? HDIFAT?
Have we drawn closer, or drawn apart this week? HDIFAT?
Is lovemaking a value for us or merely an ideal? HDIFAT?
If I could take you any place, where would I take you? HDIFAT?
What faults do I dislike most about myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about being the first to forgive?
HDIF when our children challenge us?
HDIF about our spending on gifts?
HDIF when I have difficulty getting started on an important task?
HDIF when I hear gossip?
HDIF about having a quiet place in our home?
How has my confidence in you changed since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
How can we, as a couple, meet Jesus' challenge to follow Him? HDIFAT?
How would I feel receiving a friendship card from you?
What mask (personality style) do I wear in the area of money? HDIFAT?
In order to succeed as a priest or minister, what strength of mine do I need to develop? HDIFAT?
Is it easy for me to accept help when I need it? HDIFAT?
HDIF about getting up in the morning?
What are my top priorities in our lives today? HDIFAT?
Where does our togetherness show the most? HDIFAT?
Does our lovemaking extend beyond the bedroom? HDIFAT?
We had so many hopes on our wedding day. HDIF about the way they have changed?
What is the motivating force in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the time I spend with your family?
HDIF about the way I provide for our family?
What values of mine differ from yours? How does this affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing this could be your last day to live?
Am I doing better accepting you as you are? HDIFAT?
Besides my relationship with you, what other relationships do I seek out to nourish my needs? HDIFAT?
What makes me cry? Do I cry often? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we participate in a sport?
Do I spend enough time with friends? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my people make demands of me that I think are unfair?
My image of God is _____. HDIFAT?
What are my dreams for us as a dialoguing couple? HDIFAT?
Do I keep score? (When you be nice to me, I will be nice to you.) HDIFAT?
If I am not junk, then what am I? HDIFAT?
What is my fondest memory of our wedding day? HDIFAT?
I am lucky to be married to you. HDIFAT?
How does my self-esteem, or lack of it, affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have the house looking neat for you?
Is there openness in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What do I perceive as the biggest threat to my priesthood / ministry? HDIFAT?
What do I see as my greatest asset as a priest or minister? HDIFAT?
What role do friends play in our marriage? HDIFAT?
Do I think animals go to heaven? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see children praying?
Whoever has a heart full of love always has something to give. HDIFAT?
HDIF when things go wrong at home?
HDIF about the way my voice sounds when it is recorded?
Describe a time when I felt withdrawn. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you give me a massage?
HDIF about making a will?
HDIF when I have the urge to surprise you with an unexpected gift?
Do I have my funeral arrangements made? HDIFAT?
Do I have a me-first attitude? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think you are looking forward to our dialogue?
HDIF about our first year of marriage?
Have I been critical or accepting of you this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF about starting the year off with a budget we have agreed on?
What was the most difficult thing I had to overcome to become a priest or minister? HDIFAT?
How would I describe our non-verbal communication with each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF about dying today?
What does our relationship need the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF about yelling?
Does out family have any traditional things that we do? HDIFAT?
HDIF about attending Mass on Sundays?
My greatest joy in our sexual relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about being with your parents?
Do I still have the heart of a child? HDIFAT?
What would I like to try doing that is different from anything else I have ever done? HDIFAT?
Do I make other things more important than you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about God being a compassionate God?
HDIF about being seen as unreasonable?
Sometimes life is not fair. HDIFAT?
HDIF about returning phone calls?
When do we take down the Christmas decorations? HDIFAT?
What regrets do I have that detract from my experience of today? HDIFAT?
Is my body mine or yours? HDIFAT?
Besides our bed, where would I most like to make love to you? HDIFAT?
One thing I have always wanted to learn is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about my prayer life?
HDIF about hearing all seven readings on the Easter Vigil?
HDIF when you change your mind after we have agreed on something, or made a decision?
HDIF after hearing the story of the prodigal son?
HDIF when I awake on Christmas morning?
How is today's society influencing our family? HDIFAT?
Is our love starting to make a difference in the world? HDIFAT?
What will happen if I let down my guard? HDIFAT?
Do we share our spirituality with others? HDIFAT?
HDIF about answering the phone late at night?
How would I like to be remembered? HDIFAT?
How do I need to change my life? HDIFAT?
What is there about me that I have most difficulty accepting? HDIFAT?
HDIF about compromises?
HDIF when you touch me?
HDIF when I realize I have done something thoughtless that hurt someone?
Can the new people I meet tell what interests me right away? HDIFAT?
How important are friendships to the health of my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
Am I willing to meet people halfway when I disagree with them? HDIFAT?
If we had to wait 5 years to receive our wedding license, would we still have married? HDIFAT?
What do my friends say behind my back? HDIFAT?
Do I consult with my people when a decision that affects them needs to be made? HDIFAT?
HDIF at those times when I cannot get a rise out of you?
HDIF about spiders and bugs?
HDIF about the influence of my father in my life?
HDIF about the unmet expectations I have regarding our sexual relationship?
HDIF when you heal me in dialogue?
Describe a time when I felt jealous. HDIFAT?
How can this vacation literally be a time of re-creation? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am too tense to sleep?
HDIF plunging in to a job, discovering what is necessary as I go?
What do I think about the statement, open to you, open to God? HDIFAT?
What is my primary motivation to succeed? HDIFAT?
What is the most important thing I will miss if you die? HDIFAT?
HDIF about supporting the Encounter / Retrouvaille program?
How often do we need to see before we believe? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are gentle with me?
HDIF when I get a little time to relax after I get home?
When do I feel closest to my father? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am far away from you?
HDIF about the time I spend watching TV?
What is my favorite memory of our courtship? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to you when I have had a bad day? HDIFAT?
I enjoy my relationship with people the most when _____. HDIFAT?
Is there a difference between writing to you and writing to a diary? HDIFAT?
HDIF about family reunions?
Am I comfortable doing things at the last minute or is it hard on my nerves? HDIFAT?
Do I need a little romance to get in the mood for making love? HDIFAT?
How has our life changed this past year? HDIFAT?
HDIF about working weekends?
Do I ever change what I write or say to gain your approval? HDIFAT?
What change have I seen in our children since dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am a source of inspiration to you?
How do I react to compliments? HDIF?
In what area do I need to risk sharing more with you? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt surprised. HDIFAT?
What does this holiday mean to me? HDIFAT?
Are we talkers or non-talkers? HDIFAT?
What are the best and most beautiful things in our lives? HDIFAT?
I am turned off by people who _____. HDIFAT?
What fears keep me from wanting another child? HDIFAT?
How can I bring the joys of Christmas to other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF after I go to confession?
When was the last time I praised you? HDIFAT?
What mask (personality style) do I wear in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I spend money on gifts?
HDIF when you give me love taps?
HDIF when I need you to give me space?
Do I truly care about others? HDIFAT?
What did I do today to help someone in need? HDIFAT?
What would be my heart's desire right now? HDIFAT?
How does our support community enhance our relationship? HDIFAT?
What friend of my people would I rather not be around? Why? HDIFAT?
What are my memories of our first year of marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF about burdening a friend with a secret that will be difficult to keep?
HDIF when you gaze into my eyes?
What good habit can I use to overcome a bad habit of mine? HDIFAT?
What are my expectations for the month of May? HDIFAT?
What can we do to economize this Christmas? HDIFAT?
In what specific way have I brightened your day today? HDIFAT?
What am I willing to do to make our dialogue better this coming week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when illness strikes close to home?
The couple that has most helped me to experience God's love is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about what I am able to provide for our family?
HDIF when I see a new baby?
How do I usually deal with conflict in my relationships? HDIFAT?
We have had no time for recreation. HDIFAT?
What have I most taken for granted? HDIFAT?
What do I think you find difficult to tell me? HDIFAT?
Am I more concerned with who is right or with what is right? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are too tired to be lovers?
HDIF about the number of hours I work?
What kind of example am I to the children around me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see anger or annoyance on your face?
How does the organization (or lack of) in our home affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
Do I take enough time to praise God each day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think of how our children are turning out?
How do I feel about going back to school?
When I accept advice from others, am I willing to accept their help as well? HDIFAT?
HDIF about asking you out and planning the entire date myself, including making the reservations?
Your needs are in conflict with mine. HDIFAT?
We are a sacrament. What does this mean to me? HDIFAT?
What holiday is my favorite? Why? HDIFAT?
Do I believe in your love, even when it is not shown? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of our children? HDIFAT?
What talents do we have as a couple? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we brought Christ's love to the world? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see couples we know working on their relationships?
HDIF about taking on a ministry as a couple?
Besides my normal place of worship, where would I most like to celebrate mass / worship? HDIFAT?
Do I encourage others to see the beauty of God's creation? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we go to mass or church together?
How do I see our relationship in the light of SIR 26:1-4, 13-16? HDIFAT?
Have we inherited any family traditions from our grandparents? HDIFAT?
HDIF telling _____ about our problems?
What experience has most affected our marriage? HDIFAT?
What prevents me from being generous to you and others? HDIFAT?
Can I talk easily to people for as long as necessary? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see the beauty of God's creation? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going with you to a chic flick?
HDIF about having a shared journal of thoughts and feelings?
Has my self-image improved because of our dialogue? HDIFAT?
Are we involved with other couples who share our marriage values? HDIFAT?
Did I letter in a sport in high school or college? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my spiritual growth this Lent?
When I am pressured by my people, how am I most likely to respond? HDIFAT?
How often do I worry about what others say and do? HDIFAT?
HDIF about being called by God to a life of holiness?
How do I see priests / pastors needing our support in their calling? HDIFAT?
Our dialogue can be a way we say yes to each other. HDIFAT?
How would I like to be remembered as a grandparent? HDIFAT?
I am a better person because of my people. HDIFAT?
In general, do I give you more criticism or praise? HDIFAT?
Do I like roller coasters or other scary rides? HDIFAT?
HDIF about compromise?
How many different jobs have I had in my life? HDIFAT?
Do I need to work through my emotions / feelings before I can act, or can I put them aside and get the job done? HDIFAT?
You are my mirror. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try something different?
Do I think you would consider me to be a romantic? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the variety of our lovemaking?
When I am at a party, HDIF about leaving other people alone to enjoy themselves?
HDIF when our children praise me?
What side of me do I least like others to see? HDIFAT?
Do I try to control you sometimes? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself mature for my age? HDIFAT?
If I were to list my weaknesses, what would stand out to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when the bills are due, but we cannot afford to pay them?
What tempts me? HDIFAT?
Do I give to my people without restriction? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the birth of one of our children?
Am I able to be myself when I am with you? HDIFAT?
Do we want a deeper loving marriage, or do we think it is deep enough? HDIFAT?
How do we support the marriages of our relatives? HDIFAT?
Where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.
Where do I need more patience in my life? HDIFAT?
What are my family's favorite springtime activities? HDIFAT?
Is our sexual relationship a source of intimacy or a source of distance? HDIFAT?
HDIF when your needs seem to be in conflict with mine?
I make many of my decisions by _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am directing sarcastic remarks at someone else?
Am I covering up the loneliness I feel for you? HDIFAT?
How do I think I ended up at my current parish or church? HDIFAT?
Holidays are a time for family togetherness. HDIFAT?
HDIF about leftovers?
Do I feel good about myself when I am with you? HDIFAT?
What is my listening pattern when we talk about disciplining our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you excel at something I thought I was rather good at?
HDIF when we put activities before our relationship?
Describe the ideal picnic. HDIFAT?
HDIF about spending time alone, by myself?
God will give us nothing we cannot handle. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I touch you?
How well do I show my love to you? HDIFAT?
What is the biggest barrier to loving you more? HDIFAT?
As a parent, could you do better? HDIFAT?
Do I learn from the mistakes of others and listen to their advice? HDIFAT?
Do I prefer the natural look or the more made-up look? HDIFAT?
What sounds please me most during lovemaking? HDIFAT?
Do I judge other people by higher or lower standards than I use on myself? HDIFAT?
How would I like to be romanced by you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am criticized or made fun of in public?
HDIF when someone tells a joke that makes fun of someone of my profession / ancestry / gender?
How well do I show my love to God? HDIFAT?
Are we living God's plan or our plan? HDIFAT?
How do I see my favorite movie playing out in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about rearranging the furniture?
As the basis of my goals in life, I want to be _____. HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt suspicious. HDIFAT?
What is the best thing that happened to me today? HDIFAT?
Did we keep the true spirit of Christmas? HDIFAT?
Are we too involved or do we lack involvement in our marriage program? HDIFAT?
Am I more likely to accept others as they are, or to make judgements about them? HDIFAT?
How have we grown in our pain as well as our joy? HDIFAT?
When have I been aware of our light shining for all? HDIFAT?
HDIF about trying different things to see what works best, as opposed to seeking advice?
What are / were the dreams we had for our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF about confronting bigoted people?
HDIF when we look at pictures from our wedding?
What do I enjoy reading? HDIFAT?
Do I pray about my plans before I make a decision? HDIFAT?
HDIF about being called to be a visible sign of the church?
HDIF when you propose a new sexual experience?
HDIF when I unjustly scold our children?
HDIF when I am the center of attention?
HDIF about our marriage as a sign of love to others?
HDIF when I see an old boyfriend / girlfriend?
Do I have enough time to accomplish my goals? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, What is your problem?
Marriage is our last best chance to grow up. HDIFAT?
Do we reach out to those in need? HDIFAT?
We mostly live in the middle, between success and failure. HDIFAT?
When did God last surprise me? HDIFAT?
What could I do to help my people understand me better? HDIFAT?
Who controls the bed in the house? HDIFAT?
HDIF driving home from a meeting of our follow-up or support group?
HDIF about stopping for pedestrians in crosswalks?
What effect has dialogue made in our daily lives? HDIFAT?
I think you misunderstand me in this area: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who demand and expect perfection?
In order to learn to give, I also need to learn to receive. HDIFAT?
Everything is beautiful in its own way. HDIFAT?
Does my touching you communicate caring and commitment? HDIFAT?
In the area of sex, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF in realizing our sexual union is God's command?
HDIF looking back at our twenty-fifth wedding anniversary?
What am I most obsessive about? HDIFAT?
How do I approach each new day with you and with God? HDIFAT?
HDIF putting things off until the last minute?
Do I encourage or discourage other people from expressing their emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
How do I deal with my physical temptations? HDIFAT?
What do I resolve to do this year? HDIFAT?
How am I pro-life? HDIFAT?
When I look back over the holidays, what was the greatest gift I received? HDIFAT?
HDIF about teaching Sunday School / CCD / RCIA?
Describe a time when I felt ashamed. HDIFAT?
Can we find time for some family prayer? HDIFAT?
My favorite time of day is _____. HDIFAT?
What would be the perfect escape weekend? HDIFAT?
How would never having children affect our life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about embellishing the truth, especially if it makes for a good story?
Do I spend my time wishing for a longer life, or living well the life that I have? HDIFAT?
What can I do to change the world? HDIFAT?
How well do I accept criticism from you? HDIFAT?
What do I do that keeps me from being closer to God? HDIFAT?
How well do I trust my people? HDIFAT?
Describe a stage in my life when I was not happy. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we make big financial decisions?
HDIF when we hear our song?
If I could experience the weekend again, what part would I re-live and why? HDIFAT?
I learned a lot from this mistake: _____. What did I learn? HDIFAT?
Our love has grown in the follow-up period. HDIFAT?
When was the last time I felt healed by sharing a feeling in our dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our daughter being a priest / pastor / nun?
Describe a time when I was most turned on sexually? HDIFAT?
Do I root for the underdog or the favorite? HDIFAT?
Do I like to sing Christmas carols? HDIFAT?
What is my ideal date with you? HDIFAT?
What things do I let defeat me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about family dialogue?
HDIF just before I tell someone something they will not like to hear?
HDIF when I do something good for someone else?
What do we have to offer the world together, that I do not offer alone? HDIFAT?
The neighborhood dog is ruining our bushes. HDIFAT?
In what areas or ways do I compete against my people? HDIFAT?
Am I impatient in prayer? HDIFAT?
Do I give you more criticism or more praise or little of either? HDIFAT?
How does my attitude toward your mother affect us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I discover there is almost no gas left in the tank?
HDIF about starting to ride a bicycle again at my age?
HDIF about looking out for Christ's coming?
HDIF about Christ being born in our relationship?
What kindness do I still remember from someone who has passed away? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we reminisce about our favorite times together?
God is my dialogue partner. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you initiate sex?
Do I need to be free to do whatever looks like fun when the time comes? HDIFAT?
How are we living the spirit of Christmas throughout the year? HDIFAT?
In what ways does TV affect our family life? HDIFAT?
If I could receive a sixth sense, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone compliments one of our children?
What do I think heaven is like? HDIFAT?
How do I want you to see me, and is it the same as I want others to see me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when packing a love note in with your lunch?
What do I need to change in myself to become who I need to be? HDIFAT?
Where did I put dialogue on my list of priorities today? HDIFAT?
Am I busy all the time? HDIFAT?
HDIF about part of our lives continuing through our children?
HDIF when I laugh with my people?
What advice would I give a young bride or groom? HDIFAT?
What is the greatest gift we can give to each other this Christmas? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our children leaving home and going out into the world to make their own choices?
HDIF about our child leaving the nest?
How do I think we can be more involved with each other? HDIFAT?
Our sexual relationship is a mirror of our total relationship. HDIFAT?
The work I am doing now is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you sleep late?
HDIF about going to _____, a place where I have always wanted to go but have not gone?
What I love most about you is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children are praised by strangers?
Can I forgive myself for my faults and mistakes, and then move on? HDIFAT?
HDIF about praying before dialogue?
What can I do to show you more love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making you feel good about yourself?
Is it easy for us to agree on decisions? HDIFAT?
HDIF about venerating the cross on Good Friday?
What area is the hardest for me to reveal to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my state of health? Do I take it for granted?
HDIF about changing places with you for a day (if I could)?
Do we have real love or just romantic love? HDIFAT?
What can I do to show our children more love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making big financial decisions without you?
HDIF about how we share our possessions with others?
HDIF about planning for our future?
In times of trouble, where do I go first for help and comfort: to you, to friends, or to God? HDIFAT?
Am I doing what I want to do? HDIFAT?
When we make love, I feel _____.
HDIF about my attitudes about sex?
What words do I use to let our children know they are loved? HDIFAT?
Am I humble? HDIFAT?
What do I think about living God's plan for our marriage? HDIFAT?
Our relationship is like what kind of carnival ride? HDIFAT?
When I am really down on myself, I feel _____ and I see myself as _____. HDIFAT?
What can you do to help me be more honest about myself? HDIFAT?
Am I sometimes guilty of empty or insincere affirmation? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I lived today?
HDIF at those times when you get on my nerves?
HDIF when activities separate us?
HDIF about our involvement with work?
HDIF about giving from our substance?
When was the last time I was overcome with the power of our love? HDIF?
What is the most difficult consequence of forgiving you? HDIFAT?
What quality do I most admire in your mother / father? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we miss dialogue for several days or weeks?
Do I give you the gift of space? HDIFAT?
You cannot control the love and fidelity of another person. HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself a trend setter or trend follower? HDIFAT?
What did I most look forward to today? HDIFAT?
I need your love the most when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I receive an unexpected gift?
If I could have one wish, what would it be and why? HDIFAT?
As a child, I missed _____. HDIFAT?
You have seniority at work. HDIFAT?
HDIF about going to mass or church?
HDIF about planning a weekly family outing?
Do I make good use of the talents God has given to me? HDIFAT?
Do I stand up for what I believe in? HDIFAT?
Where do I look for help in my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
Beside yours, what friendship has meant the most to me this week? HDIFAT?
After a fight: Did I feel let down at any point? HDIFAT?
Do I think we have enough money? HDIFAT?
HDIF about skydiving?
HDIF if we won the Lottery?
HDIF when we play games with our children?
HDIF about tithing the first part of my wages to the Lord?
Do I search for the faults in others, but fail to see the faults in myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we handle money?
Would others notice any difference in us since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
HDIF about forgiving and being forgiven?
HDIF about telling social or polite lies?
What do I dislike most about myself when I fight with one of my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not trust you with my emotions / feelings?
HDIF about putting my life in God's hands?
What happens to us when we are accepting of each other? HDIFAT?
Do my selfish desires create obstacles in my relationships with my people? HDIFAT?
Which of my physical features do I like best and least? HDIFAT?
How do we usually deal with conflict in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What gifts do I have to offer to Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
When I feel distance in our relationship, what is it that challenges me to do something about it? HDIFAT?
HDIF about moving from where we are now living?
HDIF when a couple enters Encounter / Retrouvaille because of our example?
Do I live the values I profess, or do I say one thing but do another? HDIFAT?
How can I tell when you are avoiding me? HDIFAT?
Do I believe prayers are answered? HDIFAT?
Recently, I thought it was wrong, unreasonable, thoughtless or selfish of me to say _____. HDIFAT?
Do I know what others want from me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when summer is approaching?
What would I tell Jesus about you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you become violently angry with me?
When was the last time I saw myself as a failure? HDIFAT?
Where do I tiptoe around you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone points out my failure or weakness in front of others?
How can I make it easier for you to say, Forgive me? HDIFAT?
Our missionary role is always to invite other people on our journey. HDIFAT?
If I could give you one thing for Christmas, it would be _____. HDIFAT?
If I could convince people of only one aspect of Jesus' message, what would it be? HDIFAT?
How does _____ help us to experience God's love for us? HDIFAT?
What emotion / feeling does Jesus' death on the cross stir in me? HDIFAT?
Do I feel safe in mass or church? HDIFAT?
When I disagree with something said, would I rather take issue or let it go? HDIFAT?
What can I personally do to love someone who does not deserve to be loved? HDIFAT?
What are the inward signs of change for us as a result of dialogue? HDIFAT?
Am I choosing the direction of my life, or is my life directing me? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we gazed at a sunset, sunrise or starry night together? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do some household or yard chore without being reminded to do it?
I am being pressured to do something I do not want to do. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I let disagreement ride just to keep the peace?
Since dialogue, am I more comfortable talking about sex and death with other people? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself an introvert or extrovert? HDIFAT?
How well have I been listening to you lately? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people look me in the eye?
HDIF about our fertility?
HDIF lying in bed when you are sound asleep but I am wide awake?
What one gift would I most enjoy this Christmas? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are open to increasing the size of our family?
HDIF when I am able to tell you what pleases me?
What are the major remaining problems in our relationship? HDIFAT?
After a fight: What do I dislike most about myself when I fight with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF at the kiss of peace?
Do our arguments get resolved to my satisfaction? HDIFAT?
Our closest lovemaking expresses in miniature God's love for us. HDIFAT?
What dream do I have for Encounter / Retrouvaille in our region? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my creative juices are flowing?
When you say no to me in sex, I feel _____.
What is complicating my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you minimize my emotions / feelings or pay no attention to them?
How do I get re-energized? Is it the same way you do? HDIFAT?
What is something I would like to try but have not? HDIFAT?
Do I hold grudges? HDIFAT?
What would I really like for an anniversary gift (not a purchased gift)? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I swear at you or engage in name-calling?
Have I ever felt inadequate sexually? HDIFAT?
How do I describe commitment? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I listen to my inner self instead of listening to other people?
What do I tell God about you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I share with you the latest book I have read?
HDIF when I stop doing something I want to do because other people are watching?
Do we have fun together? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are talking about a touchy subject?
Do I accept myself as I am? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if I had to lie to protect someone I love? HDIFAT?
What do I think are your priorities? HDIFAT?
What role does dialogue play in our life? HDIFAT?
Am I closed to listening to you on certain topics? HDIFAT?
What do I most need from you right now? HDIFAT?
Can I find the North Star at night? HDIFAT?
How do I fail to listen to you when I am disillusioned? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get tipsy?
What areas do I least like to dialogue on? HDIFAT?
When I say, I love you, is it more of a habit or do I mean it? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people are impolite or rude to me?
Am I afraid to care, for fear that the other person does not care? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I win? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone falsely accuses me of something?
What of my emotions / feelings do I have the hardest time accepting? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you shut me off?
Do I see my relationship with Our Father as a private one? HDIFAT?
How do I want to romance you? HDIFAT?
My greatest distraction while listening to you is _____. HDIFAT?
Do I ever apologize to you after I have been rude? HDIFAT?
What is the happiest moment I have had with you this week? HDIFAT?
What does intimacy mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I say, please forgive me?
What gifts has God given to me and how have I used them? HDIFAT?
Do I hear and keep the word of God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we watch an old romantic movie together?
Do I let worry and fear drain my ability to deal with other things? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are lost?
HDIF when you do something special for me?
What is the nicest memory of our past Thanksgivings? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I fix you a drink?
What caused me to begin to share my feelings with you? HDIFAT?
Are our sacrifices meaningful or just a requirement for Lent? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you undress in front of me?
Am I a person of strong convictions, with a good sense of how things should be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I smile?
HDIF when I have to do housework?
Do I usually initiate friendships with my people, or do I wait for them? HDIFAT?
Are my sexual needs being met? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing I am forgiven for my sins?
What difference does the Eucharistic celebration make in my life? HDIFAT?
The biggest misconception people have about me is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about your promotion potential?
If we doubled our present income, would we be any happier? HDIFAT?
Can I run a mile without stopping? HDIFAT?
HDIF about us being important to the church and the world?
HDIF about being unconditionally loved by God?
After a fight: What issues still persist? HDIFAT?
HDIF being in our home alone, by myself?
What expectations do I have of my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing we are growing old together? HDIFAT?
I am very thankful about _____ but I have difficulty telling you. HDIFAT?
Sometimes, I am afraid other people will see me as _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when my superior does not share their plans with me?
HDIF about listening to rumors?
If somebody does not treat me right, am I likely to forget or remember? HDIFAT?
Do we make being married attractive? HDIFAT?
Do I consult with you when I am making plans? HDIFAT?
One of my big failures in life is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you want sex and I do not?
In what area of my life do I have the least peace? HDIFAT?
When we leave each other, do we make the effort to part with loving words in case we do not see each other again? HDIFAT?
Am I living up to my potential? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself well organized? HDIFAT?
Should we start planning for a vacation this year? HDIFAT?
What do I think about our spiritual growth as a couple? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am experiencing pain or disillusionment in our marriage? HDIFAT?
When I think about all those who made our Encounter / Retrouvaille program possible, I feel _____
Am I independent enough? HDIFAT?
What qualities do I see in you that I would like to develop in myself?