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Question
What does the baby Jesus mean to me? HDIFAT?
What does the season of Lent mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the taxes we pay? HDIFAT?
Am I willing for _____ to see me as a little odd or eccentric? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you sleep late?
Am I sensitive enough to you when your needs differ from mine? HDIFAT?
Who is or was my favorite teacher? HDIFAT?
What price am I paying right now for our financial situation? HDIFAT?
Do we enjoy learning about new things together? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your mother?
Question
HDIF when I cannot say I am sorry?
There is sibling rivalry in our home. HDIFAT?
Where did I put dialogue on my list of priorities this week? HDIFAT?
Outside of church, do I take the time to really pray with my people? HDIFAT?
Do I touch my people enough? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our fertility?
What nice thing have I noticed about you this week and have not told you? HDIFAT?
What does our relationship need the most? HDIFAT?
If I were to list my weaknesses, what would stand out to me? HDIFAT?
What am I willing to do to make our dialogue more regular? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to others when I am away from you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I laugh with my people?
HDIF about the way our marriage influences other people?
Is God part of our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we miss a day of dialog?
HDIF about going somewhere for the day without planning what to do there?
HDIF hugging our son or daughter after I have disciplined them?
What can I do for you that I have avoided doing? HDIFAT?
HDIF at parties when guests have had too much alcohol?
How do I see my favorite movie playing out in our relationship? HDIFAT?
Can I see any new doors opening for us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our children's education in music and art?
If I could give you one thing for Christmas, it would be _____. HDIFAT?
How have I been separate from you lately? HDIFAT?
HDIF if you are out when I get home?
How important are friendships to the health of my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
After a fight: How frequently do we argue? HDIFAT?
Is it difficult for us to pray with our friends? HDIFAT?
What quality in us as a family do I like best? HDIFAT?
Why did we join a support group? HDIFAT?
Do I masturbate? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I make a decision but someone has a different idea?
What special strength do I see in my in-laws? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I judge you are most frustrated because I do not listen? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we danced together? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going home for the holidays?
HDIF about the organization of my office space at work?
HDIF about the tension between us?
One of the things I would miss most about you, if you were dead, is _____. HDIFAT?
When I am really down on myself, I feel _____ and I see myself as _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the peer pressures our children are under?
HDIF when I am holding something back from you?
Are we as close to each other as we were just after we experienced the weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you call me just to say you love me?
Where do I look most for approval, inside or outside? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you ask me non-verbally to make love?
You are my gift from Our Father. HDIFAT?
When things bother me, can I tune them out? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have to accept God's plan for us?
These things support and reinforce me: _____. HDIFAT?
Weather is affecting our moods. HDIFAT?
HDIF making a list of what I need to get done this weekend?
HDIF about change?
Is our family being short-changed by our Encounter / Retrouvaille involvement? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I call you up just to say Hi?
What mask (personality style) do I wear in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I remember that all good things are gifts to us from God?
In what situation am I most likely to use exaggeration? HDIFAT?
Have I ever been betrayed by a friend? HDIFAT?
Our children are tempted by alcohol, drugs, sexuality. HDIFAT?
What do I see as your uniqueness? HDIFAT?
HDIF about arriving late for parties?
HDIF about teaching Sunday School / CCD / RCIA?
Are we living God's plan in our marriage or our own plan? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize I have done something thoughtless that hurt you?
Do we ever challenge our friends about their values and morals? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our being different?
Do I talk openly to God, or do I hold things back? HDIFAT?
HDIF about being part of a sharing or support group?
HDIF when we attend a wedding ceremony together?
Do we work well together? HDIFAT?
Have I ever been in a car wreck? HDIFAT?
Do I have an increased capacity for other relationships because of our love? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we made love spontaneously? HDIFAT?
After a fight: Who brings up painful subjects the most often? HDIFAT?
What hopes do I have for our children and what can we do to help them? HDIFAT?
What is my typical behavior when dealing with a hard time in our relationship? HDIFAT?
Have I ever felt used by you sexually? HDIFAT?
Do I believe good will triumph over evil? HDIFAT?
What did I most look forward to today? HDIFAT?
What do I remember about our wedding? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I receive a gift from you?
HDIF when I must explain my actions?
Is Jesus Lord of our prayer life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a couple says yes, they want or need to experience the weekend?
What did I want you to hear but you did not? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children ask me to knock before entering their rooms?
HDIF about the way we make our money?
Do I see myself owing my employer, or my employer owing me? HDIFAT?
What do I like best and least about our dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF about fall weather?
HDIF about starting a dialogue support group?
HDIF when I have to say, I do not know?
Do I see myself in our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our sacrament is a sign of love to others?
What is my fondest memory of our wedding day? HDIFAT?
How do I define love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are criticized for our beliefs?
The greatest gift a mother can give to her children is _____. HDIFAT?
What should we do about religious education for our children this year? HDIFAT?
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What does the New Year mean to me? HDIFAT?
Have I told any of my people how much I appreciate them today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the sacrifices of family members who have served their country?
HDIF when the assumptions you made about me are not true?
HDIF about our repeating our wedding vows?
When recently do I remember your loving me beyond inconvenience or hurt? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we say grace before meals? Or when we do not?
How am I preparing myself for Christ's birth? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we make love somewhere other than our bedroom?
HDIF when I say, please forgive me?
How can we share more of ourselves with our children? HDIFAT?
What family memories of spring do I have? HDIFAT?
Only _____ days until Christmas. Is my heart ready? HDIFAT?
Do I search for your faults like there is a bounty offered? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I tell you how important you are to me?
What does maturity mean to me? HDIFAT?
Have we drawn closer, or drawn apart this week? HDIFAT?
I am most happy when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I avoid a conflict between us?
After a fight: Did I misrepresent or stretch the truth? HDIFAT?
Are family meals together important to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having an Encounter / Retrouvaille information night in our home?
It is morning and I just got up. HDIFAT?
After a fight: This will help you better understand my reaction: _____. HDIFAT?
In what way am I trying love my people the way God loves me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making love when we have a time limit?
What is happening in our relationship right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF about renewing myself this Lent?
What is my purpose in life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I help you carry in the groceries?
God expects us to be our brother's keeper. HDIFAT?
How could we improve our couple prayer each day? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing there is a chance that today could be my last day on earth?
Did we have honeymoon hangover? HDIFAT?
HDIF about arriving early for parties?
What specific change do I need to make in myself? HDIFAT?
What would I like to try doing that is different from anything else I have ever done? HDIFAT?
Do I tend to see blessings or curses in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when dealing with your past?
What sexual baggage am I dealing with? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you tell me that you need me?
Does my job or career hinder our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF thinking about kissing you at midnight New Year's Eve?
Long ago, I borrowed a book from a friend. HDIFAT?
Do I have trouble really letting go and forgiving you? HDIFAT?
Whose good opinion is important to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF laughing with you?
After a fight: When are we most likely to fight? HDIFAT?
What satisfaction do I take in little successes? HDIFAT?
Marriage is our last best chance to grow up. HDIFAT?
How am I a life-giving parent or grandparent? HDIFAT?
Do I trust God to answer my prayers? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a teacher does not like my child?
HDIF when I let my emotions / feelings get the better of me?
HDIF about receiving massages?
Where do I feel the need to be reconciled with you? HDIFAT?
How well do I show my love to you? HDIFAT?
Can I see our children as gifts of God? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about going back to school?
Do my expectations of our children limit my love for them? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the time we spend with your family?
Today I want to thank you for _____. HDIFAT?
What have I learned from looking backwards at our history that can enrich our future relationship? HDIFAT?
Do I really believe that emotions / feelings are neither right nor wrong? HDIFAT?
How could I refocus my priorities to better serve my neighbors? HDIFAT?
Here is my description of the ideal wife: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF on those occasions when our families criticize our involvements?
HDIF asking for romance?
Do I have deep friendships with a few, or broad friendships with many? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone hurts you?
HDIF when I share a new recipe with you?
What is my favorite childhood memory? Why? HDIFAT?
Is God in my heart, or just in my mind? HDIFAT?
HDIF holding hands during mass or church?
My greatest satisfaction in our sexual relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
When our dialogue is alive and strong, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
What do I like to do best without the family and HDIFAT?
HDIF about my education in music and art?
How would I describe you to Jesus? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt exasperated. HDIFAT?
Where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.
Am I more likely to be a failure at what I love, or a success at something I hate? HDIFAT?
HDIF if we won the Lottery?
HDIF about trying to save something from every paycheck?
What do I need to thank you for that I have not? HDIFAT?
Do I ever delay too long in making a decision and miss an opportunity? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of us as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the changes taking place in our lives right now?
In what ways do I take you for granted? HDIFAT?
Do I give our family the attention it deserves? HDIFAT?
Do I see our needs not as problems or as gifts of God? HDIFAT?
Our neighbor lives alone. HDIFAT?
Do I learn from the mistakes of others and listen to their advice? HDIFAT?
When you criticize me, my reaction is to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our prayer life?
HDIF hearing God's words, I will never forget you?
What words do I use to let our children know they are loved? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the team couples whose presentations helped us experience the weekend and follow-up sessions?
What do my people do that tells me they forgive me? HDIFAT?
What do I find most attractive about religious life? HDIFAT?
How did I show you today that you are my favorite person? HDIFAT?
HDIF about trading places with one of my people for a day?
HDIF when I stop doing something I want to do because other people are watching?
Do I always have to learn by making my own mistakes? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I spend my spare time?
What am I disillusioned about right now? HDIFAT?
Am I better at remembering names or faces? HDIFAT?
How can I be more gentle with myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think that you are judging me but keeping it to yourself?
What quality in you am I most dependent on? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt stubborn. HDIFAT?
HDIF about trying new things?
What do I see in your life as life-draining? HDIFAT?
Why did we marry each other? HDIFAT?
Do we want a deeper loving marriage, or do we think it is deep enough? HDIFAT?
HDIF about dining out?
Christ is the unseen guest at every meal. HDIFAT?
What do I see as our greatest asset as a couple? HDIFAT?
Do I see your generosity toward me? HDIFAT?
We stopped dialoguing altogether for a while. Why? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we use the good silver (or the good china)?
HDIF when spring is approaching?
Am I satisfied with my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other men or women flirt with you?
Have I ever been followed, or thought I was? HDIFAT?
What one possession do I want most and cannot have? HDIFAT?
Do I prefer costume jewelry or the real thing? HDIFAT?
What I think you love most about me is _____. HDIFAT?
I think you misunderstand me in this area: _____. HDIFAT?
When I do the right thing, HDIF about what other people think?
HDIF when I see myself in photographs?
Is our sexual relationship as open as our dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF about French kissing?
How can assumptions hurt our relationship? HDIFAT?
You are my sounding board. HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking a dream vacation?
HDIF when am coming home to my people after a long trip?
How well do I think my people trust me? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we held hands in public? HDIFAT?
Do I talk openly with you, or do I hold things back? HDIFAT?
HDIF about borrowing things?
Do I like for people to drop in on us? HDIF when it happens?
What is my greatest sexual fantasy? HDIFAT?
What specifically could I do to break down the barriers between us? HDIFAT?
Can I enjoy my successes for a while, or do I have to move on to the next challenge? HDIFAT?
You cannot hold on to another person out of fear of loss. HDIFAT?
Do I see myself the same way God sees me? HDIFAT?
What does being a parent mean to me? HDIFAT?
How much control would I have to give up to make things better for us? HDIFAT?
What do I think is needed for another child in our lives? HDIFAT?
What do I think I will always remember about our family? HDIFAT?
Is God part of our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF about bringing our dialogue books on a date?
HDIF about getting our next pet from the animal shelter?
If I could change any one thing about you, I would change _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we dump on each other?
What are my hopes for us in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
Do I have the right mix of contemplation and action in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I look at pictures from my ordination / marriage?
HDIF about the life we provided for our children?
HDIF when I am buying you a gift?
HDIF about recommitting us to regular dialogue as a way of life?
What mistakes or disappointments most discourage me now? HDIFAT?
Do my selfish desires create obstacles in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about being ordained / taking vows every day?
HDIF when you are annoyed with me?
HDIF about flossing my teeth?
Which do I enjoy more, spending or saving? HDIFAT?
God has a job for us that only we can handle. HDIFAT?
What can we do to improve our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try holding my temper?
When we hold hands, what are we saying to each other? HDIFAT?
Do I make the effort to be a friend to others? HDIFAT?
Am I getting enough sleep? HDIFAT?
HDIF about where we are this year compared to last year at this time?
When I think about the rate of inflation, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
Do I really believe that we as a couple are important to the Church? HDIFAT?
How do I need to change my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about hiring help with childcare?
How does our financial situation affect our intimacy? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to others when I am away from you? HDIFAT?
Do I take my hurts to God, or just keep them to myself? HDIFAT?
What barrier do I have the hardest time overcoming in order to love you? HDIFAT?
Are we constantly getting hurt and making up in the same areas? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to be the one to discipline our children?
What causes the most friction between my people and me? HDIFAT?
If I were President for a day, I would _____. HDIFAT?
Who is or was my hero? HDIFAT?
What do I most need from you right now? HDIFAT?
Am I humble? HDIFAT?
Are there certain emotions / feelings that are hard for me to name and talk about? HDIFAT?
How do we experience unity? HDIFAT?
Can I recite anything from memory? HDIFAT?
What weaknesses do we bring to the Lord? HDIFAT?
Do I see love as being the motivating force in our lives? HDIFAT?
What are my jobs in life? HDIFAT?
Do I believe it is important to take a yearly family vacation? HDIFAT?
HDIF about God's plan for our friendships?
HDIF when I tell you more about my job or career?
Why is making love mostly a non-verbal experience for us? HDIFAT?
In what ways have I shown my acceptance of you in the past week? HDIFAT?
Have I ever witnessed a miracle? HDIFAT?
Can I identify with romantic couples? HDIFAT?
HDIF about teaching our children to cook?
When was I lonely without you this week? HDIFAT?
Do I live what I believe, or is my private life different from my public life? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I thanked my mother for being my mom? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get a surprise note or phone call from you?
When I seek advice, am I really seeking what is best for me, or to get support for what I wanted all along? HDIFAT?
Do I make the most of each day, or do I get caught up in regrets for yesterday or hopes of tomorrow? HDIFAT?
Are there hurts between us that need to be healed before our relationship can grow? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our pastor or spiritual director?
What do I like to daydream about? HDIFAT?
What values do I want us to give to our children? HDIFAT?
Do we laugh together? HDIFAT?
Do I laugh enough with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are still not home and the weather is bad?
HDIF about being a foster parent?
What little kindness did I do today to spread love around? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I reveal my emotions / feelings, and you respond as expected?
Do I ever apologize to you after I have been insensitive? HDIFAT?
HDIF about being unconditionally loved by God?
Does love mean you never have to say you are sorry? HDIFAT?
Change makes me feel _____. HDIFAT?
Do I make the best use of my time? HDIFAT?
What do I most need to take responsibility for today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone leaves a job unfinished?
What can I do to make prayer a bigger part of our life? HDIFAT?
What special moment of the past holiday season will I always remember? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our relationship staying like this?
How well do I accept others outside of my community? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the values our children acquire from TV?
If our house burned down, could we dialogue on God's love the next day? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my health?
HDIF when I tell you your hair looks great?
What gets me out of the mood? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we take a drive together to see the beautiful fall foliage?
If I could travel anywhere in the world, where would I go, and why? HDIFAT?
Which of my people do I look up to? HDIFAT?
What are some of the things I pray for? HDIFAT?
Do I compare our relationship to those around us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when people say exactly what they mean?
HDIF when I sense you are attracted by other men / women?
What is the biggest change our family or friends have seen in us since we experienced the weekend? HDIFAT?
What values do I hold that I would like the world to see? HDIFAT?
Where do we go to be lifted up as a couple? HDIFAT?
How does my work affect my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
I would feel better about us if we could make these additional changes: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about losing? Do I make excuses?
What cartoon character am I most like today? HDIFAT?
Do I express my emotions / feelings spontaneously? HDIFAT?
Do we reserve time for lovemaking? HDIFAT?
I am about as happy as I make up my mind to be. HDIFAT?
You can make me laugh when I see little to laugh about. HDIFAT?
This is the start of a new year with new possibilities. HDIFAT?
What do you expect from me that is most difficult to give? HDIFAT?
In what ways do I daily affirm my love for you? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am not satisfied with the food or service at a restaurant? HDIFAT?
Do people close to me know where I stand on most things? HDIFAT?
Do I get enough sleep? How does that affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
What is my biggest pet peeve? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get a chance to entertain children with knock-knock jokes?
When do I feel least recognized as a capable person? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt angry. HDIFAT?
You help me to be a better person. HDIFAT?
Who handles the money in our home? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I reveal an emotion / feeling that is difficult to share with you?
How is my father / mother still influencing my life? HDIFAT?
What are my expectations for the month of May? HDIFAT?
What need of mine is not being met? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making you feel good about yourself?
HDIF about the reactions of our friends to Encounter / Retrouvaille?
The greatest gift is love. HDIFAT?
What was the best present I can remember getting? HDIFAT?
How do I like to pray? HDIFAT?
Do we have enough together time to build a close relationship? HDIFAT?
When your actions embarrass me, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
Is my life inspired by love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having a costume party?
HDIF when I have to shovel the snow?
What phobias do you have? HDIFAT?
How can I be more intimate with you? HDIFAT?
Is our sexual relationship becoming routine? HDIFAT?
HDIF at parties when guests have had too much alcohol?
Do I put more than the average amount of effort into our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I discover there is almost no gas left in the tank?
Have we grown, plateaued, or slipped backward in our relationship this week? HDIFAT?
The phone rings during dinner. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I share my popcorn with you?
HDIF about hearing all seven readings on the Easter Vigil?
Do I ask your forgiveness or just say I am sorry? Do I even say I am sorry? HDIFAT?
What evidence do I have in my life that dialogue is important? HDIFAT?
How can I bring the joys of Christmas to other people? HDIFAT?
What about my relationship with God would I like to improve? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not like the dialogue question we are using?
HDIF about expanding our existing values to live God's plan?
HDIF about our family traditions or the lack of them?
What do I like best and least about our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
Do I live out my convictions? HDIFAT?
What can I do next week to help people experience more of God's love? HDIFAT?
I feel best about myself when I am _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have done all that I can do and must wait for results?
What do I need to change in myself to become who I need to be? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having to do work that does not harmonize with my values?
After a fight: HDIF now about things I wish I had done or said differently?
Whom do I admire that is a good example? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you heal me in dialogue?
HDIF when you make one of my priorities one of yours?
HDIF being around a room full of children?
HDIF when I judge I let you / others down?
HDIF when I recycle old newspapers, bottles or cans?
Are we too busy for prayer? HDIFAT?
Do I believe in work before play? How does that affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have a large number of people over?
HDIF when we are with good friends?
What kind of Christmas present did I get? HDIFAT?
Have we shared old history from our childhood with each other? Why or why not? HDIFAT?
What is my fondest memory of my father?
In what areas of our relationship do we most need to grow? HDIFAT?
In what area of our relationship am I experiencing loneliness? HDIFAT?
Am I ever motivated by a sense of duty? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we use the grace of healing to forgive another person?
Do I make the best out of bad situations? HDIFAT?
How has dialogue helped me get in touch or stay in touch with you? HDIFAT?
Am I more likely to voice my discontent and disapproval, or do I hold my tongue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you criticize me?
HDIF about Christ being born in our relationship?
HDIF when you come home from work?
HDIF about our marriage being made in heaven?
Do I ever keep quiet because I do not know what to say? HDIFAT?
In what area of my life do I have the least peace? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I reveal my innermost emotions / feelings to you?
HDIF about sharing our Thanksgiving dinner with strangers?
What is my attitude toward discipline and HDIFAT?
Do material possessions mean as much to me now as they did before we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
Can you count on me in a time of need? HDIFAT?
As a child, did I make prank phone calls? HDIFAT?
HDIF about being on time?
How has my confidence in you changed since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
Do I talk to myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our marriage being a living sign of love?
I am worth more than I am paid. HDIFAT?
Am I more the methodical type or the adventurous type? HDIFAT?
How have we most grown in our relationship over the past year? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get an answering machine instead of a live person?
Describe a time when I felt pessimistic. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I watch scary movies?
Do I love God? HDIFAT?
What values do we want our children to have about money? HDIFAT?
What have you done that I have not forgiven you for? HDIFAT?
HDIF asking for what I need?
What changes should I make to keep from being disillusioned with my people? HDIFAT?
After a fight: At what specific point did I get drawn in? HDIFAT?
Are wants bad or unimportant compared to needs? HDIFAT?
What sexual values do I hold? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my involvement with work?
Am I experiencing any remorse or guilt for hurting someone else? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we buy something we really do not need?
HDIF when we are lost?
HDIF when I have completed a project?
HDIF when I let disagreement ride just to keep the peace?
HDIF when I have wasted time?
HDIF about my family's aging and health-related problems?
HDIF when we participate in a sport?
How can we incorporate prayer into our daily life? HDIFAT?
What are my hopes and dreams for my prayer life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about being unforgiving?
Do our arguments ever escalate from routine matters to serious matters? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I had scheduled time with my family, but need to be with my people instead?
HDIF about newborns in our family?
When have we affected another couple by sharing our story? HDIFAT?
Do I take my friends for granted? HDIFAT?
How do I suppose our children feel when they see we are in love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the tension between us?
What sounds please me most during lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving massages?
Do we feel the Spirit moving in us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about someone who has died in our family?
What are my hopes and dreams for our children? HDIFAT?
Am I willing to give up my dreams to make your dreams come true? HDIFAT?
What ideal(s) do I pursue that could cause conflict with others? HDIFAT?
HDIF about planning a winter holiday with you?
I need to know the answers to the following questions: _____. HDIFAT?
How important is the Eucharist to me? HDIFAT?
Do I give up too easily? HDIFAT?
What is your best quality today? HDIFAT?
Who has more fun, adults or children? HDIFAT?
HDIF about telling our children I love them at least once a day?
Is there anything I am doing by myself that I could involve you in? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if one of our children would want to become a minister? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your travel schedule?
Am I comfortable doing things at the last minute or is it hard on my nerves? HDIFAT?
HDIF about myself when I am with you?
Where is my favorite place for dialogue? HDIFAT?
God loves me even with all my sins and flaws. HDIFAT?
An admission of error is a sign of strength rather than weakness. HDIFAT?
Was regular dialogue one of our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT?
How do I describe commitment? HDIFAT?
Do I put more than the average amount of effort into my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
I feel trapped because _____. HDIFAT?
Do I eat in response to my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone says, I know just how you feel?
Describe a time when I felt smug. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am a tourist?
Do I have trouble accepting that my / our grown child is not the the ideal I dreamed of? HDIFAT?
HDIF about keeping weekends relatively unplanned?
How would I rate my mental health? HDIFAT?
HDIF if you are out when I get home?
HDIF about Right to Life issues?
What hinders us from making better decisions? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a member of our family compliments me?
Do I hold a grudge against anyone? HDIFAT?
HDIF when illness strikes close to home?
What specifically can I do this week to create a little more romance? HDIFAT?
After a fight: What have I learned about the way you handle conflict? HDIFAT?
Do I tend to see things in black and white, or do I see shades of gray? HDIFAT?
When someone expresses tender emotions to me, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
Do I try to decide which emotions / feelings are OK to admit having? HDIFAT?
How has God blessed me today? HDIFAT?
After a fight: What was the worst fight we ever had? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I laugh at you?
HDIF about being successful?
If possible, I would like to reclaim these things I gave up for you: _____. HDIFAT?
How would never having children affect my life? HDIFAT?
I hate people who _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about leftovers?
What do I think heaven is like? HDIFAT?
HDIF today about all the effort it takes to prepare for Christmas?
The most important thing in my life right now is _____. HDIFAT?
I need your love the most when _____. HDIFAT?
Do I believe we should share household tasks? HDIFAT?
When I am at a party, HDIF about leaving other people alone to enjoy themselves?
Do I really believe that our love is God's love? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt hung-over. HDIFAT?
HDIF about going to my high school reunion?
HDIF when I hear, Love is not love until you give it away?
What does this holiday mean to me? HDIFAT?
What am I most likely to do when I waste time? HDIFAT?
What conditions do I put on my love for you? HDIFAT?
HDIF at those times when you get on my nerves?
HDIF when you win an argument?
We have activities, jobs and careers. What about us? HDIFAT?
Do I pray for you? HDIFAT?
How can I reveal my emotions / feelings to you outside dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when friends invite us but do not come over in return?
After a fight: What are the good things about our fights? HDIFAT?
What compliment do I most like to receive about us? HDIFAT?
What do I want from this relationship right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our private time together?
HDIF when I get up but let you sleep?
Good Friday is the only day of the year we do not celebrate Mass. HDIFAT?
Do we know any couple who is hurting? HDIFAT?
I like to look at you when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about donating money to the poor?
HDIF when I have to make a difficult phone call?
Am I living my life so that one lifetime is enough? HDIFAT?
HDIF about attending class reunions?
I think your strengths are _____. HDIFAT?
Are my sexual needs being met? HDIFAT?
How am I different from other priests / ministers? HDIFAT?
In an important conversation, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
In an average week, what activities work to enhance our relationship? HDIFAT?
What would I like to do for God with the time He has given me? HDIFAT?
What are the changes I most need to make in myself for the sake of our relationship? HDIFAT?
Am I content in my circumstances? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see the house in a mess?
Thank God it is Friday. HDIFAT?
What is my most vivid memory of our honeymoon? HDIFAT?
Can we talk about money easily? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the distance I have to travel to get to work?
Have I ever felt guilty after performing a sex act? Be specific. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the last time we made love?
HDIF when I make encouraging comments to you?
What special qualities as a couple do we bring to other people? HDIFAT?
Are we living God's plan in our marriage or our own plan? HDIFAT?
Am I afraid of making mistakes? HDIFAT?
What is the greatest gift I could give to God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am hungry but cannot or do not take time to eat?
Where do I generally have an attitude of superiority? HDIFAT?
Do I usually initiate our lovemaking, or do I wait for you? HDIFAT?
We have an opportunity to move. HDIFAT?
HDIF about dying to self?
HDIF when I have a deadline?
What can I do to make myself more available to my people? HDIFAT?
How well do I accept my own aging? HDIFAT?
I am better motivated to change when I _____. HDIFAT?
What compliment do I most like to receive about me? HDIFAT?
Do we share our faith in each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF about God being a compassionate God?
What do I do that demonstrates my faith? HDIFAT?
HDIF in realizing our sexual union is God's command?
What is my dream for a perfect romantic evening? HDIFAT?
When something bad happens to me, do I let it hurt our relationship? HDIFAT?
Do friends think our sexual relationship is better or worse than it is? HDIFAT?
How would I describe the awkwardness I feel when we talk about sex? HDIFAT?
What changes in my relationship with my people have I taken for granted? HDIFAT?
HDIF telling _____ about my problems?
HDIF knowing Jesus has called me by name?
HDIF when other people see our togetherness?
Do I judge other people by higher or lower standards than I use on myself? HDIFAT?
What was a time during our dialogue that I felt that you were really listening to me? HDIFAT?
After a fight: Did we argue because we remember things differently? HDIFAT?
Could our home be more Christ-centered? HDIFAT?
Do people tell you that you have an accent? HDIFAT?
What is something I would like to try but have not? HDIFAT?
HDIF watching our parents grow older?
Have any of our dreams come true? HDIFAT?
What is it about you that I find most attractive? HDIFAT?
Do I give my best to you or to others? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I awake on Christmas morning?
Is my burden easier when I share it with Christ? HDIFAT?
Does TV take away valuable time from us as a family? HDIFAT?
Our dog's barking is going to disturb the neighbors. HDIFAT?
If I could do any other job than the one I am doing, I would do _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about planting flowers in the spring?
HDIF about God being the one who brought us together?
What romantic memories do I have from our dating days? HDIFAT?
Are we reflecting the mark of oneness today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you compliment me in front of other people?
How do finances affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about facing the bills when there are too many?
HDIF about the way our yard looks?
Do I manage to be courteous even when I am in a hurry? HDIFAT?
What are my family's favorite springtime activities? HDIFAT?
HDIF seeing animals in the zoo?
After a fight: Would it have helped to take a time-out? HDIFAT?
What are my longings and yearnings for us and our relationship? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I feel vulnerable to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I nag you?
HDIF when I judge myself guilty?
What foods do I like the best? HDIFAT?
Where do I believe God has called us in ministry as a couple? HDIFAT?
What can I do to listen to my people better? HDIFAT?
Do I believe you when you reveal my goodness? HDIFAT?
HDIF about bankers in general?
Am I patient enough with our children? HDIFAT?
What is the biggest continuous source of stress in my life? HDIFAT?
There is sibling rivalry in our home. HDIFAT?
HDIF when summer is approaching?
HDIF knowing that God has entrusted me with something special of Himself?
HDIF when you bring me a present?
Do I let my little aches and pains interfere with our relationship? HDIFAT?
What is there about me that I have most difficulty accepting? HDIFAT?
Do I do enough with what I know? HDIFAT?
Is God the center of my life? HDIFAT?
Do I take life too seriously? HDIFAT?
I believe I have failed at _____. HDIFAT?
Does my humility bring me closer to God? HDIFAT?
HDIF about springtime bursting forth all around us?
How do I react to the emergencies that come up in my daily life? HDIFAT?
In what ways am I seeking to love my wife as Christ loved the church? HDIFAT?
What is complicating my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having God in our relationship?
HDIF about putting you first when our children are so demanding?
HDIF being responsible for my own needs?
In large groups, do I feel better introducing other people or being introduced? HDIFAT?
Do I give to my people without restriction? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of your job? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
Are there areas where I need a lot of reassurance? HDIFAT?
Which of us usually makes the decisions? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children misbehave in public?
HDIF about the way we spent last weekend?
What precedents have we set with family members? HDIFAT?
What do we have planned this holiday season that I would rather not do? HDIFAT?
HDIF about living today knowing we are not guaranteed tomorrow?
HDIF about we are the church?
What do I think you most want from me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I smile or laugh at other people's misfortunes?
Describe a time when I felt out of control.
HDIF about the way our children dress?
Have I ever lost sight of my dreams or goals? HDIFAT?
What feeling have I not shared with you this week because I thought you would not accept me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you share with me your hurts, disappointments, fears and failures?
The Lord is coming. HDIFAT?
Am I a saver or a spender with my money? HDIFAT?
HDIF about attending a graduation ceremony?
In what area of our relationship am I most disillusioned with? HDIFAT?
What talent or quality do I most admire in you? HDIFAT?
How can we best celebrate our anniversary? HDIFAT?
What does our relationship need the most? HDIFAT?
Have you recently said something that made me feel uncomfortable? What? HDIFAT?
What areas have I closed my ears to listening to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you surprise me with a gift?
The first Christmas I remember was _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our materialistic lifestyle?
HDIF about the way things have been going lately?
When I am pressured by you, how am I most likely to respond? HDIFAT?
What topic gives me the most difficulty in listening to you? HDIFAT?
The one thing I admire and love the most about you is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF during (each) pregnancy?
HDIF about my appearance?
HDIF walking around in public with ashes on my forehead?
How well do I think you trust me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the Trinity of God? HDIFAT?
Do I have enough close friends? HDIFAT?
What song most makes me think of you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see a new baby?
HDIF about asking others for marital help?
HDIF when other people say hello to me?
In what important areas do I find it most difficult to listen to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about jaywalking? When other people jaywalk?
HDIF knowing we are growing old together? HDIFAT?
HDIF at those times when you are controlling and manipulative?
HDIF when I get tipsy?
HDIF about the way you behave in public?
Do I turn my troubles over to the Lord? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try to hold my temper?
HDIF about the way I handle money?
When I consider our financial condition, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the prospect of making love tonight?
What are the best and most beautiful things in our lives? HDIFAT?
What was the nicest thing someone did for me this week? HDIFAT?
Did I do everything today as if it would make a difference? HDIFAT?
Am I a quick learner or do you have to study something a lot to understand it? HDIFAT?
What keeps me from trusting you completely? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I judge you are better than me at something that I take pride in my ability to do?
In an average week, what activities work against our relationship? HDIFAT?
What is my greatest financial concern right now? HDIFAT?
After a fight: At what point do our arguments get out of control? HDIFAT?
Which Encounter / Retrouvaille couple do I feel closest to? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt sick. HDIFAT?
What do I do to get relief from emotional pain when I am tired, lonely, angry or hurting? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our daughter being a priest / pastor / nun?
Are we free to ask our friends for help anytime we have a problem? HDIFAT?
Do I dwell on how different we are, or on how much we have in common? HDIFAT?
What kind of store would I like to own and operate? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the importance of making decisions as a couple?
How could I refocus my priorities to better serve my God? HDIFAT?
Are we on the same side? HDIFAT?
I see God smiling down on us as we make love. HDIFAT?
After a fight: What pitfalls keep our fighting from being constructive? HDIFAT?
What emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to reveal to you? HDIFAT?
How can I be more tender? HDIFAT?
What give me the most sexual fulfillment? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see someone parked illegally in a handicapped space?
HDIF about inviting another couple to dialogue with us regularly?
HDIF when I am too tense to sleep?
When our dialogue is stale and flat, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
When it is time to take action, I prefer to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about being with your parents?
How does my attitude toward my father affect us? HDIFAT?
What in our relationship gives me the most satisfaction? HDIFAT?
When you touch me tenderly, without sex as a goal, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who always have both feet on the ground?
Do I place limits on our sexual relationship? How? HDIFAT?
HDIF about letting others do the work, even if I know it will be partly wrong or incomplete?
HDIF when the telephone interrupts something important?
What is my greatest fear about war? HDIFAT?
In what area do I judge myself inferior to you? HDIFAT?
When you feel threatened, I feel _____.
What effect did dialogue have on us as we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who name-drop?
How has our life changed this past year? HDIFAT?
HDIF about attending school functions?
HDIF when we get together with family?
What sacrifices do I have to make to have you number one? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our long-term commitment to each other?
What has been the hardest experience of my life? HDIFAT?
Do I see death as an end of our relationship, our love? HDIFAT?
What kitchen appliance am I most like? HDIFAT?
HDIF when your family makes demands on us?
What is the most exciting thing that ever happened to me? HDIFAT?
What do I think about when I hear the word Christmas? HDIFAT?
How do I need to change to make me your favorite person? HDIFAT?
What topic would I most like to see discussed in our community of couples? HDIFAT?
What is my greatest talent in listening to you? HDIFAT?
I would like people to think of me as _____. HDIFAT?
How can I tell when you are tired? HDIFAT?
Am I content with where I am in life? HDIFAT?
Do we waste food or any other scarce resource? HDIFAT?
How does _____ help us to experience God's love for us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when exhaustion keeps us from being lovers?
HDIF when you yell at our children?
I would really feel special if _____. HDIFAT?
What would I like to be remembered for? HDIFAT?
Do I pray with my people enough? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you give me a butterfly kiss?
How can we bring new life to someone else, as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my decisions are questioned?
HDIF when I hear of a new birth?
HDIF about the way our marriage reflected God's love in our world today?
What would I tell Jesus about you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, We'll dialogue after the next TV program?
HDIF about my career now?
What changes should I make to keep from being disillusioned with God? HDIFAT?
When someone is aggressively angry with me, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our first year of marriage?
HDIF about the ways I try to show you that you are special?
HDIF about reading the Bible together?
HDIF when others ask me what I think?
What areas of our relationship do I most often control? HDIFAT?
What pain do I keep to myself? HDIFAT?
Why do I go to church? HDIFAT?
Where do I have an attitude of inferiority? HDIFAT?
What can we do to renew our romance and passion? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not want to dialogue?
How patient am I with myself? HDIFAT?
Do I find criticism hard to take, even when I know it is constructive? HDIFAT?
What is my earliest memory of death in my childhood? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I watch our children play in the snow?
HDIF when I say no to your request for lovemaking?
Do I like to sing Christmas carols? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to disappointment? HDIFAT?
Have I brought healing to you recently? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I take a photograph of you?
What was the most meaningful experience that I had today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do something that I think pleases God?
Do I deny my mistakes, or do I learn from them? HDIFAT?
Do I ever get so involved with others that I neglect my own projects? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I discipline our children?
HDIF about the way we resolve conflicts in our relationship?
HDIF when I see your features in our child?
HDIF about taking time out for us?
HDIF re-reading what you wrote as we experienced the weekend and follow-up?
When is the last time I made the decision to love? HDIFAT?
What grudges do I hold? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are talking about a touchy subject?
What expectations do I have of our family? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
Who are the people who lift us up? HDIFAT?
Am I a worrier? HDIFAT?
What compliments have I received lately that I did not fully accept? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get the silent treatment from you?
HDIF when we are not together as a family?
HDIF when I receive an unexpected gift?
How was my name chosen? HDIFAT?
What blessings can I count today? HDIFAT?
After a fight: Do our rules allow us to take a break to cool down? HDIFAT?
Is there a difference between writing to you and writing to a diary? HDIFAT?
What might be fun for us in the future? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going to _____, a place where I have always wanted to go but have not gone?
HDIF about how we share our possessions with others?
HDIF about the way we spend money?
Do I work at improving myself every day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have judged you unfairly?
When I think of the friends in our life, I feel _____.
Do we have fun together? HDIFAT?
Am I a loner? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way my voice sounds when it is recorded?
What are my views about mid-life marriage? HDIFAT?
When we talk about Encounter / Retrouvaille, some reject us. HDIFAT?
What kinds of compliments have I received most often as an adult? HDIFAT?
What tempts me? HDIFAT?
Am I content with my lot in life? HDIFAT?
Do I tell you I love you enough? HDIFAT?
Do our children spend enough time doing their homework? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we must borrow money?
Do I get jealous easily? HDIFAT?
HDIF about trimming the Christmas tree?
What do I think you miss about our romance? HDIFAT?
Are we too involved or do we lack involvement in our marriage program? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you treat me with tenderness?
If I could try a new job for one day, I would try _____. HDIFAT?
Do I see myself living the same as my parents, or differently? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who are hypersensitive?
HDIF about taking a shower together?
HDIF about accepting you just as you are?
HDIF about returning to the daily routine after a long weekend?
HDIF tracing your face with my fingertips?
How can we make God more present in our dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF about continuing in a sharing or support group?
Why do I stay married to you? HDIFAT?
Which three qualities do I require in a friend? HDIFAT?
What friends help me see our goodness? HDIFAT?
Do I worry about keeping my job? HDIFAT?
HDIF about learning to use a pistol or rifle?
What can I do to show you more love? HDIFAT?
What can I do to help me understand my people better? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I remember that all good things are gifts to us from God?
God sees us as very special because _____. HDIFAT?
Will I choose burial or cremation at death? HDIFAT?
How did your spouse propose? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sending Christmas cards?
How do I recognize Christ in you? HDIFAT?
How do I see our weaknesses as a couple? HDIFAT?
How did you fulfill the longings in my heart when I first met you? HDIFAT?
How important do I think romance is in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you gaze into my eyes?
HDIF when I hear people discussing salaries?
What price am I paying right now for our financial situation? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having a Halloween costume party?
Do I have all I want or am I able to do without? HDIFAT?
How have I brought God's forgiveness to our family? HDIFAT?
What special gift have I prepared to give Him for His birthday? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we disagree in front of others?
What actions, things or behaviors are life-giving to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way you greet me at the end of the day?
What risks should I be taking to keep our communication timely and alive? HDIFAT?
A closed heart can only be opened from the inside. Is my heart fully open to you? HDIFAT?
What do I hope for next summer, HDIFAT?
HDIF when you have to be the one to discipline our children?
HDIF helping you prepare for our Thanksgiving meal?
Are we as parents encouraging Christian values in our home? HDIFAT?
How am I living the World's Plan for my life? HDIFAT?
Do I know how to be myself, or do I always wear a mask (personality style)? HDIFAT?
Do I use anger as a source of energy? HDIFAT?
HDIF about family dialogue?
HDIF when some job or activity separates us?
HDIF about our first house or apartment?
Do I ever keep quiet because communication takes too much effort?
What do I want our priorities as a couple to be? HDIFAT?
How do I see myself to be superior to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you put the children ahead of us?
What personal goals have I set? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we stick to our budget?
HDIF about the Easter bunny?
What is most likely to result when I cry? HDIFAT?
How would I describe heaven? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I take care of my body?
HDIF about the way you affirmed your love for me today?
How much privacy do I need in general? In our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about trying different parishes / churches?
Is religion something we do or something we live? HDIFAT?
HDIF about escaping to a bookstore and having some fun?
Do I believe we are children of light? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am experiencing pain or disillusionment in our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who are angry?
When did I make the decision to love you lately? HDIFAT?
In think I may have hurt you this month when _____. HDIFAT?
How could you help me grow spiritually? HDIFAT?
If it were possible, I would like to become a _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF approaching Christ as a couple?
What are my goals for _____? HDIFAT?
What was the most tender moment we shared together this week? HDIFAT?
What do I hope for in my heart for my people? HDIFAT?
What would be the perfect escape weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get too many irons in the fire? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to take a risk with someone other than you?
Do I prefer the company of people or animals? HDIFAT?
Do I ever challenge myself to do something I have never done before? HDIFAT?
What kind of compliment is hardest for me to accept from others? HDIFAT?
How could our sex life improve? HDIFAT?
When in the past week did I think my emotions / feelings were wrong to have? HDIFAT?
HDIF about death?
Are you more like your mother or father? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I buy you flowers?
Do I worry about the kids seeing us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my state of health? Do I take it for granted?
Do I try to control or hide my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are separated because of my job or career?
Our separate interests are drawing us apart. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the roles I play in our marriage?
HDIF about eternity?
On average, how much alcohol do I drink in a month? HDIFAT?
HDIF about moving from where we are now living?
How does my pride get in the way of our relationship? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself funny or serious? HDIFAT?
What has dialogue taught you about yourself? HDIFAT?
When you are trying to learn something new, do I try to teach you, or do I try to help you discover how to do it yourself? HDIFAT?
In what way do I try to modify my behavior to please you? HDIFAT?
In what ways do I feel superior to you as a parent and HDIFAT?
Besides my relationship with you, what other relationships do I seek out to nourish my needs? HDIFAT?
Is or love for each other stronger now than it used to be? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing that today could be our last day together?
HDIF about being praised or recognized in public?
HDIF when I think you do not believe me?
When we are alone, we usually talk about _____. HDIFAT?
What year of my life would I like to relive? HDIFAT?
How can I tell when you are hurt? HDIFAT?
What two adjectives best capture the real me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you become violently angry with me?
HDIF when someone asks me to share?
If I was stranded on an island with you, what one thing would I take with me and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we miss mass or church?
How can I tell when you are angry? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am separated from you?
HDIF about watching TV during mealtime?
How have in-laws contributed a positive change in our family? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I play cards to win? When I play just to be sociable?
What expectations do I have of God? HDIFAT?
How does my self-esteem, or lack of it, affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my sacrifices to make the family meal enjoyable?
What do I learn from adverse situations? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you look at other women / men with obvious interest?
HDIF when I think you have let other people down?
How is our family like the Holy Family? HDIFAT?
Why did I become ordained / take up my ministry? HDIFAT?
HDIF about planning for a romantic time together?
In what aspect of my relationship with my people have I grown the most? HDIFAT?
After a fight: Am I still feeling hurt? Describe the pain.
HDIF when you make a sacrifice for me?
What could I do to help your spiritual growth? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I take you to a new restaurant?
HDIF about installing dead-bolt locks on our outside doors?
A hayride is planned. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think you are angry with me?
HDIF when I am sulking?
HDIF when a couple we have invited comes home from experiencing the weekend and thanks us?
Do I make it a point to thank people who do something for me? HDIFAT?
When do I let my temper get in the way of making a good decision? HDIFAT?
Do I believe in my / our Sacrament when I am down? HDIFAT?
How do I see our strengths as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF after being with superstitious people?
What expectations do I have for involvement in Encounter / Retrouvaille? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
What one thing can I change to improve the atmosphere in our home? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of you? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
What are the outward signs of change for us as a result of dialogue? HDIFAT?
What am I searching for in life and how does it affect us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you show confidence in me?
Do I see myself worthy of you? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I left you a love note? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who are easily irritated?
What need of mine most needs to be nourished? HDIFAT?
What would be a good family vacation? HDIFAT?
Do we have any sharing time? Why or why not? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you put your arm around me?
When am I not listening to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF after we dialogue?
HDIF when you do not like the dialog question I have selected?
When was a time you touched my life? HDIFAT?
I know I would never find another you. HDIFAT?
Do I get along with your parents? HDIFAT?
If this were our last Christmas, how would I like to spend it? HDIFAT?
Have I ever won money gambling? HDIFAT?
In any change, there is tension. HDIFAT?
Do we have time for things like lingering over a candlelight dinner at home? HDIFAT?
HDIF about LK 16:9?
HDIF about deadlines in general?
Do I expect tenderness and understanding in our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF sharing a dialogue letter with other dialoguing couples?
Where in my day-to-day life do I experience stress? Describe the stress. HDIFAT?
HDIF about seeing God in you?
As a child, I missed _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am running late?
HDIF after I donate a pint of blood?
What is the nicest thing that happened to me this week? HDIFAT?
What would I personally like to try to help make Encounter / Retrouvaille better? HDIFAT?
Our changing moods can affect our relationship. HDIFAT?
HDIF when a couple enters Encounter / Retrouvaille because of our example?
If I was about to die and could only tell you one sentence, what would it be? HDIFAT?
God gave you to me. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see our children laugh?
Do our children enjoy our attention to each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF putting things off until the last minute?
HDIF when I tell you that I really believe in you?
What role does nature play in our marriage? HDIFAT?
I experience rejection most when _____. HDIFAT?
Do I fully believe that in the act of our loving each other, we bring Christ's presence to the world? HDIFAT?
Is it difficult for us to pray with our friends? HDIFAT?
What have you done for me today that I am most grateful for? HDIFAT?
Did we have a rocky start? HDIFAT?
Is our sexual relationship life-giving? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I lose an argument?
HDIF when I ride in a car with bad brakes or slick tires?
HDIF showing affection in front of our children?
HDIF about celebrating Christ's birth?
I most want to be sexually involved with you when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we sign our Christmas cards?
HDIF when I do not want to make love but do anyway?
How can I be more sensitive to you? HDIFAT?
I have difficulty sharing my emotions / feelings about _____. HDIFAT?
Do I give credit where credit is due? HDIFAT?
My favorite time with you is _____. HDIFAT?
What is the nicest thing I have done for someone anonymously? HDIFAT?
What keeps me from being as open in real life as I am in my dialogue letter? HDIFAT?
When I want some time for myself, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
How do I view the differences between affection and sex? HDIFAT?
Was regular dialogue one of our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am driving very fast?
HDIF about criticism? Does it keep me focused and innovative?
HDIF when my superior does not share their plans with me?
What do I see in God that makes me love Him? HDIFAT?
What is the biggest confidence you give to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about spending the rest of my life at my current place of worship?
When was the last time we called our special friends just to tell them we love them? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our children's manners?
Would I rather work for somebody fair but not kind, or kind but not fair? HDIFAT?
Have we been open in our daily dialogue? HDIFAT?
How are we responding to Jesus' call to be fishers of men? HDIFAT?
I must be true to _____. Can I be true to this and still be with you? HDIFAT?
Very few burdens are heavy when everyone lifts. HDIFAT?
What obstacles do I need to overcome in order to love you better? HDIFAT?
What can I do for God that I have avoided doing? HDIFAT?
Do I see you through my heart or through my head? HDIFAT?
What goals would I like to archive in the next few months? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you brag on me to your friends?
Do I pray for circumstances to change, or for the grace to handle circumstances? HDIFAT?
How do we usually deal with conflict in our relationship? HDIFAT?
You are my gift from Our Father. HDIFAT?
What special gift of myself do I offer to you today? HDIFAT?
Do I listen to you with my mind only, or also with my heart? HDIFAT?
HDIF when another couple asks, How is your dialogue?
Do I expect intellectual closeness from our marriage? HDIFAT?
Do I search for my people's faults like there is a bounty offered? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself bigoted in any way? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get overextended?
HDIF being around people who are wrapped up in their careers?
I feel most uncomfortable with you when _____. HDIFAT?
How does the weather affect my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
What is the biggest challenge facing us this week? HDIFAT?
If we had to wait 5 years to receive our wedding license, would we still have married? HDIFAT?
Is it harder for me to adapt to a routine or to constant change? HDIFAT?
What is my reaction to Mary's yes to God? HDIFAT?
How have we come closer to Jesus through suffering? HDIFAT?
HDIF saying yes to lovemaking but only for the good of our relationship?
Is our family being short-changed by our Encounter / Retrouvaille involvement? HDIFAT?
Can I begin to love myself enough to forgive my past mistakes? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know that you are proud of me?
How does stress affect my self-image? HDIFAT?
God often allows our hearts to be broken so that He can beautify our soul. HDIFAT?
Do I sometimes take you for granted? HDIFAT?